You are hurting and feel lost. You are in pain because of the betrayal or the distance that has grown in your relationship. You don't know how to fix things. So much of your struggle seems too painful or embarrassing to share with anyone, so you keep it inside, constantly looking for answers around you. But they don't come. You’ve tried, in all the ways you know how, to turn to your partner and change things together. But nothing has worked. You're out of ideas and wondering if there is any way you can possibly turn things around.
I can help.
I know what it takes to repair ruptured relationships - even the ones that seem hopeless. We begin by identifying the cycles that keep you at a distance from one another. Then we'll learn to dismantle them and build new patterns together - where you earn the safety and security to consistently turn towards one another. If there are old wounds, we heal them. If new hurdles arise, we apply your skills to them. You are not the first person to feel this. You are not the first couple to go through this. You can do this. I can help.
You are not broken.
Sometimes life slowly moves us apart from one another. Other times addiction, betrayal, and massive wounds threaten to destroy our relationships and our families. You’re not alone. I know how to walk with you as we heal your pain and repair your relationships. I’ve been there. And I know the way out.
How does this story end?
After you give yourself the gift of this work, you earn clarity. You have peace. You feel safe with yourself, and you feel secure with your partner. On the foundation of that security you've built a life and a relationship that is deeply satisfying. You know how to cultivate healthy intimacy and healthy boundaries. The memories you make, from little every day moments to massive milestones, keep adding up. It's not that every day is perfect, but when bumps in the road come your way, you have the tools to navigate them. You know how to take excellent care of yourself and your relationship. Your love is fun again.